When You Fight, What Are You Fighting For? 

Couples often arrive in the therapy room with a familiar kind of exhaustion. Not because they argue, but because they argue the same way, again and again. 

The storyline shifts. One week it’s money, the next it’s parenting, then intimacy, then time, then tone. But beneath the changing content, there is a recognition: we’ve been here before. 

There’s a particular kind of discouragement that comes with that. It can begin to feel less like a disagreement and more like a pattern you’re trapped inside.