Reclaiming the erotic: A sex therapist's reflection on Audre Lorde
Seek To Understand, Then To Be Understood
One of the most common themes that arises in the therapy room - and in nearly every kind of relationship we experience from intimate partnerships, parenting, friendships, workplaces, or community - is the longing to feel understood.
Can I Trust What I Feel?
Many of us have learned to distrust our own knowing.
The body says no, and we wonder if we are overreacting, self-sabotaging, or being difficult. The body says yes, and we immediately begin negotiating with it: whether it is realistic, whether it is safe, or whether we deserve it.
The Spark Myth And What Else to Look For When Dating…
The spark can be a beautiful starting point, a signal that something has our attention and is worth exploring. But while chemistry can open the door, it doesn’t tell the whole story. Spark without substance isn’t wrong, it’s just incomplete.
Your Body Is Not a Problem for You to Solve
This is where depth psychology meets the nervous system. The psyche speaks in images and symbols; the body speaks in sensations and impulses. Together, they form a conversation. Our task is to listen—to thank the protectors for their service, to remind the body that not every moment is a battlefield, and to allow the wisdom beneath the symptom to be revealed.
How to Help with Invisible Labour When You Can’t See it
Understand the impact of invisible labour and shift the dynamic for the benefit of everyone!
How Invisible Labour Squashes Women’s Sexuality
Do you really need one more thing to do?